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This soccer publication is strangely dull, yet oddly irresistible. Its title raises questions. Dear England already is used by a popular theatrical production, an forthcoming television program, and a public letter penned by Gareth Southgate in 2021.

This iteration of Dear England isn’t formally connected to those. It represents an anomaly in the expanding Dear England universe, a book about guidance: a typically dull top-level coach subject that Southgate adheres to doggedly, relying on the words “leader”, “leading” or “leadership” at least 500 times across 336 pages.

Themes Explored

“What defines a leader? What do leaders do? And what do leaders know?” he asks early on, establishing his position, but declining to explore “Why are leaders?”, questions presumably saved for a future volume.

Beyond that, this book contains a notable absence in the middle. It’s a venture in subtly confrontational self-justification, in almost-but-not-quite saying the real point, skipping skillfully from unresolved issue to raw emotion across a collection of graphs, business clichés and references about historical figures.

Engagement

Reading it is like listening to your family members having a controlled but profoundly personal disagreement in the next room while you’re trying to focus on a corporate presentation called “Countless Explanations for My Eventual Success”. But it is also impossible to put down, as the author keeps approaching to an issue you genuinely desire to learn about, before unexpectedly changing tack.

Revelations

Readers will find inevitably news headlines in works like these, explained by the rapt fascination with England managerdom. The most notable instances include: Southgate resolved he was absolutely going to resign as England manager after spectators tossed containers at him at the European Championship; he nearly decided to withdrawing from the game at the interval against Bulgaria in 2019 after his players were racially abused; he invented the concept of dedicated restart experts and the entire league in the English football is now following his lead; he has now misplaced his enthusiasm for football, a surprising confession thrown away in a single paragraph at the end.

Managing England through a period of fury, aspiration, upheaval and pandemic restrictions was a harsh experience. The scars are clearly still unhealed.

Generic Content

In other sections, the narrative is flooded with an computer-generated linguistic mush of generic leadership chat. Copies of this publication were provided with journalists under confidentiality clauses prior to publication, likely out of concern someone might reveal that “difficult conversations can, by their nature, be difficult”, that you should always think before you act, that management takes place where transformation combines with compassion.

Emotional Core

Readers will find nonetheless real feeling present. Guiding England through a era of rage, optimism, upheaval and confinement was a brutal experience. The scars are clearly still raw, though expressed in a buzzword-filled reinterpretation of the classic leader theme: how my decisions were correct about everything throughout.

Specific Examples

The book’s initial chapter, disguised as gripping memories of the championship match of the tournament, is all about how good Southgate actually was at substitutes (the primary common complaint being he wasn’t successful at making changes). Subsequently, he goes into extensive analysis about how he oversaw the deciding game of 2021 impeccably – specifically the unsuccessful spot-kick decider – because he followed a predetermined process, which suggests that throwing on inexperienced squad members at the last moment to take the biggest attempt of their careers was sensible and correct.

This was confirmed by a winning penalty decider against Switzerland four years later after a fixture where England spent the full duration looking as if they were striving to don a sweater the backwards. “Our commanding performance in that shootout was simply exciting,” the author writes, in between likening the showing to special forces neutralizing a notorious figure. Oh Gareth.

Avoided Revelations

When we do get close to a disclosure, the manager backs away from specifying people or providing the juice. We hear there were problematic England individuals who required more consideration, possibly because they were pampered during the beginning of their careers. But as you expect hopefully, the author is already veering off into an area called a leadership concept, which asserts that as opposed to a grouping of characteristics or ideals, team environment is in fact an element that is developed by, unfortunately, enough, no more.

Strengths

Included in the stronger sections are when the author explores about the incremental process of fostering mental toughness in young people, or how he tried to define Englishness more lucidly and more constructively than anyone else in the spotlight. Most impressively, there is a really gripping account of that harrowing match in the Bulgarian capital where England’s players of color were subjected to vile treatment (and later protected forcefully by their leader).

Heartfelt Conclusion

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